When I speak with high school kids about getting a part-time job, I give them all the same advice: find a job waiting tables.
The restaurant industry is like a career boot camp. The skills needed to wait tables are integral to every field and transferable to any dream. Restaurant servers have to be experts at customer service, relationship building, time management, multitasking, delegating, and so much more.
That’s where my story starts.
I was 17 years old waiting tables with a fire in my belly and the motivation to GET OUT. I had built a great client base of recurring customers. One of the best tips that I ever received came in the form of a book—given to me by a married couple who owned their own business. The book was Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki.
Let me be honest; I hated that book.
I read it in a day expecting to eventually get past the endless parables, metaphors and imagery. I wanted direction. I wanted a to-do list. I wanted someone to tell me what to do, when to do it and how! So, I threw the book to the side, but the seed had been planted.
A few years later, my mother’s home fell into foreclosure. I couldn’t help but remember Kiyosaki’s lesson of homeownership being a liability not an asset (unless it creates cash flow).
I attempted to buy my first home at 21, knowing that my mortgage would be cheaper than my rent. My income from waiting tables, coupled with fresh student loan debt, didn’t help my chances. The loan fell through right before I was set to close.
So, I waited until I had job that could be directly deposited. I saved, and I studied.
I found a neat little house to rent well within my budget. When I met with my landlord to sign the lease, I took the opportunity to ask him a slew of questions. He was kind enough to answer them and provide a couple of book recommendations.
I started checking books out of the library. I took my landlord out to lunch. I attended Real Estate Investor Association meetings. I went to seminars and deals tours. I found co-workers with rental properties. I signed up for alerts from all of the appropriate websites, and here I am.
All of these experiences, and so many more, coalesced to carve out a path for me in real estate. Don’t get me wrong, I did my share of digging and paving.
But the path is there if you want to find it.